Motivational and Parenting advice

If peace is missing in your life then this post is for you. Every person in the universe is entitled to a peaceful life but whether we claim our award is in our hands. If your vision is to live peacefully while working upon your goals then you need to develop a mindset. Yes developing a mindset is the key. Before I share that, There are few things you need to be aware of and keep in mind : ~No matter how planned everything is there will be hiccups at the time of execution. ~The earth is constantly moving, energies are constantly exchanging you can't control everything on the planet. ~You can't control what is out of your circle of influence. ~You need to accept it as it is what you can't control. ~You are responsible for your thought process and not how people respond. You are dealing with fellow humans and if they irritate you, bother you or trouble you and maybe today you have awareness of that but you might have also hurt someone unconsciously when y

Are you wasting every day of your life thinking as if there is another tomorrow? Doing unnecessary things Binge-watching Sleeping every day for long hours Spending time with people you don't want in your life Or under influence of a substance But what if there is no tomorrow, this is the only day that you have with you? Will you still spend it the way you have been spending it or Will you make some changes? If yes, what would be those changes? Have you given up your dreams just like Salman in the sultan movie and started living a mediocre life? Are you waiting for some external motivation and won't wake up till the time you get it? Then, I will remind you that a movie is created by a director and everything is scripted but in our life, we are the directors of our life. If you are waiting for an external motivation then you may waste every day but it might never come. We all are selfish humans we all have come on this planet for ourselves. When you don't succeed

  For how long you are going to live at the mercy of others recognizing your value? We seek people who see value in us when we don't see it ourselves We look for partners who believe in us when we don't believe in ourselves We want others to love us when we don't love ourselves We want employers to trust our capabilities when we don't Just merely being aware of the fact that you have been created by God makes you a person of value, there is no doubt about it. God has thought something for you while giving you this life and that too of a human being and not just an animal or a plant who can't do anything exceptional like a human. I am not disregarding animals or other creatures here but I want to highlight the fact that human being can think, create and be whatever he wants just by focusing their attention there. But this is only possible for a human being who knows his worth. If you are being dependent on others to show you your worth or value then I wish you get t

  As a Human, it's your responsibility to help, support, guide and mentor a fellow human. When we become selfish and start comparing ourselves with others, we also stop growing as a person. We stop giving, sharing thinking that the other person has or knows already, but sometimes some unique perspective can be very beneficial for others. So, should you stop sharing knowledge or experience with others just because others may become better than you? No, because every person doesn't have the same goals though it seems the same position everybody looks for different things in that. Everyone doesn't go to work just for money someone goes for financial independence Someone goes for self-respect Someone goes to develop one's skills Someone goes to apply and learn more Someone goes for a leadership position Someone goes for an encouraging environment Someone goes to come out of their comfort zone So, every person has a different reason to work so their wants are also different.